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The Reason You’re Scared To Release Your Music with Alina Victoria

September 24, 20253 min read

Alina didn’t always overthink her music. She used to write and record songs in a day. Her process was raw, but honest and felt freeing.

But somewhere along the way, she started believing that “real” music had to be strategized. Marketable. Polished. And that’s when something shifted:

She stared questioning her art. She felt pressure - pressure that only she put on herself, but pressure never the less.

“I was just making a song for fun…

Now I’m like—should I have a strategy? Should I be doing all that jazz?”


From Creativity to Curation: When Expression Becomes Pressure

You don’t need a strategy to create. But the moment you try to package your art for release—your brain switches roles. It stops asking what feels honest and starts asking what sounds right.

That’s what happened to Alina. She loved creating in the studio. She just didn’t know how to let the finished work go.

“I loved being in the studio for hours... just writing and creating something that’s my own.”

But releasing something personal can feel scary. What if they don’t like my music? Does that mean they don’t like me? Do I become less valuable?

While your conscious mind knows that this isn’t true, your subconscious worries like to take over and keep you in the “safe zone” - keeping you from inviting others to judge you and your music.

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The Perfection Paralysis Trap

Ironically, the songs you care about the most are the ones you're most afraid to release.

  • “Is this good enough?”

  • “What will people think?”

  • “What if I share this and it gets ignored?”

The more time you spend with a project, the more personal it becomes. And suddenly, it’s not just a song anymore… some artists refer to their songs as their babies!

“It’s funny… the ones I wrote quickly, I shared.

But the more professional ones? I’m stuck.”

This is the paradox most artists don’t talk about: The better you get, the harder it can be to let things go. Why? Because you have higher standards for yourself!

It’s the same thing in singing… the better you get the more you realize how little you actually know about singing. And because you’re more serious about it - maybe you took some lessons and invested in your voice - the higher your standards are and the better you have to perform to be happy with your outcome.


Spontaneous vs. Strategic Creation

There’s nothing wrong with being intentional. But when intention turns into hesitation, it stops being useful. What made that first song so special wasn’t how polished it was. It was the honesty. The momentum. The rawness. And that’s something no marketing plan can replace.

If you’ve ever found yourself hoarding finished tracks, endlessly tweaking a mix, or wondering why you used to feel braver—it might be because the stakes grew, but your self-trust didn’t grow with them.

That’s what Alina is learning to rebuild: trust in her own timing, instincts, and readiness.


Your Voice Deserves to Be Heard, Not Hidden

Let’s be honest—most of us don’t sit on songs because they’re unfinished. We sit on them because we’re scared. Scared it won’t be enough. Scared it won’t land. Scared it’ll actually be good—and still not matter.

But here’s what this conversation with Alina reminded me:

✨ You don’t release music because it’s perfect.

✨ You release it because it’s true.

Even if you're not 100% ready. Even if you don’t have the perfect rollout. Even if your only strategy is: “this needs to come out of me.”

Your songs aren’t just projects. They’re evidence of your growth. And if they helped you, they might help someone else.


🎧 Hear how Alina is navigating this crossroads

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Lara Chapman is an award-winning singer and songwriter turned viral vocal coach with over 1 million followers online and the Founder of VoxTape Studios. As the founder of VoxTape Studios, Lara empowers singers to make singing feel effortless and protect their vocal health without compromising their artistry. Her mission is to ensure every singer can fully express themselves with confidence and ease.

Lara Chapman

Lara Chapman is an award-winning singer and songwriter turned viral vocal coach with over 1 million followers online and the Founder of VoxTape Studios. As the founder of VoxTape Studios, Lara empowers singers to make singing feel effortless and protect their vocal health without compromising their artistry. Her mission is to ensure every singer can fully express themselves with confidence and ease.

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